One thing that I always wanted to remind the girls about when it comes to purity and relationships is the idea that for every action there's a reaction. The one thing most young people struggle with is the idea that there's life beyond high school and that the decisions they make today will affect their future. If you're not thinking about tomorrow you are likely living in the realm of failing to plan. Basically the saying "if you fail to plan, you plan to fail" might just be your motto/lifestyle.
I would challenge you to adopt a new mindset, "begin with the end in mind."
So fast forward through your life...when you have your daughter sitting in the family room with you and she asks you about how you did things when you were young and dating. Did you wait to have sex until you were married? What's an STD and why didn't you tell me you had one? These questions and more can be tough to answer and cause a great chasm of pain between you and your child. Is it worth it? Wouldn't it be more satisfying to be able to sit down with them and share the love story you allowed God to take part in?
I didn't do things right, I have had the tough conversations. I have had to be real and transparent. I have spent many hours in prayer trying to understand what God would have me do in my situation. And I tell you this, I wouldn't wish this on anyone. No, my desire would be to spare you the pain, shame, and guilt and see you Begin with the End in Mind.
Ask God to give you a vision for your future and see what He reveals. His plan for our lives is far greater than anything we could ever ask or imagine. Trust Him to have your best interest in mind. Who knows He may even use your love story to influence other young women to desire the "road less traveled" for their future as well.
Remember, "Begin with the End in Mind!!!"
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